導讀一、很多關系，不是老的好也不是新的好，而是一起經歷了一些事之后，你還真切的覺得對方挺好，這才是值得你，去認真對待和掏心窩子的關系。Manyrelations....

一、很多關系，不是老的好也不是新的好，而是一起經歷了一些事之后，你還真切的覺得對方挺好，這才是值得你，去認真對待和掏心窩子的關系。

Many relationships, not old or new, but after some experience together, you really feel that the other party is very good, which is worth you, to seriously deal with and dig into the heart of the relationship.

二、有時候，我們活得很累，并非生活過于刻薄，而是我們太容易被外界的氛圍所感染，被他人的情緒所左右。其實你是活給自己看的，沒有多少人能夠把你留在心上。

Sometimes, we live very tired, not too mean life, but we are too easy to be infected by the outside atmosphere, by other peoples emotions. In fact, you are living for yourself, not many people can keep you in mind.

三、不開心的事情要定期清除，那樣才有儲存快樂的空間。沒有過不去的事情，只有過不去的心情，所以，心一定要多點晴朗，活著不是靠心情，而是靠心態。

Unhappy things need to be cleared regularly so that there is room for happiness. There is no thing that cant be passed, only the mood that cant be passed, so the heart must be more sunny, live not by mood, but by mentality.

四、時光就像個大篩子，經得起過濾，自以為玩的不錯的好友，也許并不是你想象得那樣好，只有經過時間的檢驗，日久見人心，最后留下來的，才是真正的朋友。

Time is like a big sieve, which can withstand filtering and think its a good friend to play with. Maybe its not as good as you think. Only after the test of time, people will see each other for a long time, and finally stay, is the real friend.

五、有喜有悲才是人生，有苦有甜才是生活。無論是繁華還是蒼涼，看過的風景就不要太留戀，畢竟你不前行生活還要前行。

Happiness and sorrow are life, bitterness and sweetness are life. Whether its busy or desolate, dont be too nostalgic about the scenery youve seen. After all, you have to move on if you dont move on.

六、不要執著于令自己痛苦的事物，不要去惦記再也回不去的曾經。過去既然那么讓人絕望，人總是要往前走的，有些事，放棄得越早，未來就會越好。

Dont stick to the things that make you miserable, dont think about the past that you cant go back. Since the past is so desperate, people always have to go forward. Some things, the sooner you give up, the better the future will be.

七、人生的旅途中，總有那么一段時間，需要你自己走，自己扛。不要感覺害怕，不要感覺孤單，這只不過是成長的代價。

In the journey of life, there is always a time when you need to go and carry it by yourself. Dont feel afraid, dont feel lonely, its just the price of growth.

八、時間最會騙人，但也能讓你明白，這世界上是沒有什么不能失去的！離去的都是風景，留下的才是人生，走到最后的，才是對的人。

Time is the most deceptive, but also let you understand that there is nothing in the world that can not be lost! What we leave is the scenery, what we leave is life, and what we get to the end is the right person.

九、人生就是一列開往墳墓的列車，路途上會有很多站，很難有人可以自始至終陪著走完。當陪你的人要下車時，即使不舍，也該心存感激，然后揮手道別。

Life is a train to the grave. There will be many stops on the way. Its very difficult for anyone to walk with him all the time. When someone with you wants to get out of the car, even if you dont give up, you should be grateful and wave goodbye.

十、所有你曾經哭過的事，多少年之后，你一定會笑著說出來，然后罵自己一句：當初真的好傻，其實人生沒有那么多的煩惱，時間會解決一切，好好愛自己。

All the things you have cried about, how many years later, you will laugh and say, and then scold yourself: at first really silly, in fact, there are not so many troubles in life, time will solve everything, love yourself.

十一、在這個世界上，沒有人真正可以對另一個人的傷痛感同身受。你萬箭穿心，你痛不欲生，也僅僅是你一個人的事，別人也許會同情，也許會嗟嘆，但永遠不會清楚你傷口究竟潰爛到何種境地。

In this world, no one can really feel the pain of another person. You have a thousand arrows piercing your heart. You are in great pain. Its just your own business. Others may sympathize with you or sigh, but you never know exactly where your wound is festering.

十二、我們最大的悲哀，是迷茫地走在路上，看不到前面的希望；我們最壞的習慣，是茍安于當下生活，不知道明天的方向。

Our greatest sorrow is to walk in confusion without seeing the hope ahead; our worst habit is to live in the present without knowing the direction of tomorrow.

十三、不必太糾結于當下，也不必太憂慮未來，當你經歷過一些事情的時候，眼前的風景已經和從前不一樣了。

Dont be too obsessed with the present or worry about the future. When you experience something, the scenery is different from the past.

十四、人生本來就沒有相欠，別人對你付出，是因為別人喜歡，你對別人付出，是因為自己甘愿。情出自愿，事過無悔。

Life is not owed, others pay you, because others like, you pay others, because you are willing to. Voluntary feelings, no regrets.

十五、人生就像不停在用的鉛筆，開始很尖，但慢慢的就磨的圓滑了。不過，太過圓滑了，就差不多又該挨削了。

Life is like a pencil that keeps on using. It starts sharp, but slowly rubs smoothly. But its too smooth, and its almost time to be cut again.

十六、人生，有多少計較，就有多少痛苦；有多少寬容，就有多少歡樂。計較的心如同口袋，寬容的心猶如漏斗。復雜的心愛計較，簡單的心易快樂。

Life, how much to care about, how much pain; how much tolerance, how much joy. A calculating heart is like a pocket, and a tolerant heart is like a funnel. Complicated love calculation, simple heart easy to be happy.

十七、心態不好，人生易老。有什么樣的心，你就是什么樣的人。人，不怕容顏滄桑，就怕心的蒼老。

Mentality is not good, life is easy to grow old. What kind of heart, you are what kind of person. People are not afraid of vicissitudes of life, they are afraid of the old heart.

十八、金錢再多也無法阻止死亡，長相再美也不能討好閻王，聲名再大也要經過生死。因此人生不要太貪，不要活得太累。

No amount of money can stop death, no amount of beauty can please the King of Yan, and no amount of fame can go through life and death. So dont be too greedy, dont live too tired.

十九、選擇任何一種生活方式，都有得有失。所以，不用羨慕什么，也不用抱怨什么。你所能做的，只是保持身體和內心的平衡。

There are gains and losses in choosing any way of life. So dont envy or complain. All you can do is keep your body and mind in balance.

二十、人生苦短，世事無常。何必事事那么在乎，更不必處處那么計較。人這一輩子，不過百年，沒必要過分苛求什么，苛求太多，煩惱就多，奢望太多，痛苦更甚。

Life is short and things are changeable. Why do you care so much about everything, not to mention everywhere? In ones lifetime, however, there is no need to be excessively demanding, demanding too much, worrying too much, expecting too much, and suffering even more.